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Friday, October 02, 2020
Marriage and Family Law Pluralism: Commentary on Eskridge and Riano’s Marriage Equality: From Outlaws to In-Laws
Guest Blogger
For the Balkinization symposium on William N. Eskridge, Jr., and Christopher Riano, Marriage Equality: From Outlaws to In-Laws (Yale University Press, 2020). Doug NeJaime Yesterday
I focused on the innovative and important LGBT family law work documented in
William Eskridge and Christopher Riano’s breathtaking book, Marriage
Equality: From Outlaws to In-Laws. I discussed domestic partnerships,
designated beneficiaries, second-parent adoption, parentage judgments, and
voluntary acknowledgments of parentage (VAPs). I did not discuss marriage. Yet
the book is an account of the path to marriage equality. Today, I’ll explore
the tension between the family law pluralism I addressed yesterday and the
fight for marriage equality at the heart of the book. Eskridge and Riano
carefully analyze this tension—detailing how LGBT efforts were channeled into
marriage and contemplating the legal regulation of families in a post-marriage
equality world. Eskridge
and Riano frame the entire book through the story of Rowse and DeBoer. These
two women wanted to have their relationships to their children recognized and
thus sued for access to second-parent adoption. (p. 3) For a variety of
reasons, including the urging of the federal judge assigned to their case,
Rowse and DeBoer’s lawsuit become a marriage suit. It was not just any marriage
suit; it was one of the cases decided in Obergefell v. Hodges, the 2015 U.S. Supreme Court decision opening
marriage to same-sex couples. Once married (in a ceremony officiated by the
very judge who presided over their case), Rowse and DeBoer secured their
parentage with respect to all of their children by undertaking stepparent
adoptions. But they should not have had to marry to establish their parental
status. Today, Michigan allows same-sex couples to marry but does not expressly
permit second-parent adoption. Eskridge
and Riano’s focus on Rowse and DeBoer shows how significant they view the
tensions created by the movement’s drive toward marriage. The authors spend a
good deal of time discussing left critiques of the marriage equality
campaign—critiques lodged both by movement insiders and by scholars of gender,
sexuality, and the family. They grapple with the serious issues these critiques
raise. They worry that the movement’s focus on marriage made outsiders of those
whose relationships did not fit neatly within marriage’s confines. They express
concern that the messaging necessary to secure marriage equality further
cements the special status of marriage and thereby demeans unmarried people. (p.
711) And they contemplate whether the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in Obergefell
supplies the legal justification for withholding rights and obligations
from nonmarital families, including children in those families. (p. 729) But
Eskridge and Riano are not wholly persuaded by critics on the left. (p. 730) Instead,
their wide-ranging and nuanced account of LGBT advocates’ family law work—marriage-related
and otherwise—reveals a more complex story in which marriage resides alongside
other family law developments—domestic partnership, designated beneficiaries,
second-parent adoption, intended parentage, and so on—that respond to the needs
of those who exist outside marriage. (p. 717) The family law pluralism we are
left with is uneven and partial, happens in fits and starts, and sometimes takes
a step backward, but it is family law pluralism nonetheless. LGBT
people created family arrangements that defied conventional norms. LGBT
advocates struggled to forge new forms of recognition to accommodate these
unconventional family arrangements. At the same time, LGBT advocates and their
constituents felt the draw of marriage. Some desired inclusion in an
institution accorded such great societal and legal significance. But even those
who did not desire such inclusion were constrained by the normative
force of marriage and the legal framework that privileged it. Against this
marriage-centered backdrop, it seems even more remarkable that LGBT advocacy
transformed important dimensions of family law outside marriage. As
Eskridge and Riano show in great detail, marriage played a complicated and
important role in the modern LGBT movement from the very start. Marriage itself
was changing over the period, including because of feminist demands for reform
reflected in the pioneering work of the late Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg. (p.
708) As Michael Boucai has shown,
same-sex couples’ claims to marriage in the 1970s, in the early years of gay
liberation, represented a radical
challenge to the gendered norms that structured intimate relations. While
marriage became more egalitarian (at least as a formal legal matter) over the
ensuing decades, marriage also began to become less central to the family lives
of many Americans. In the late twentieth century, marriage rates declined and
nonmarital cohabitation and childrearing became more common. Yet, marriage
retained much of its social status and legal privilege. For LGBT advocates
critical of marriage’s discriminatory history and exclusionary meanings, they
nonetheless found that marriage continued to exert a significant force over the
legal and cultural imagination of LGBT and non-LGBT people alike. As I have
argued elsewhere,
“marriage functioned like a riptide. Advocates were swimming with and against
marriage, often at the same time. That is, they challenged marriage’s role even
as they submitted to its pull.” For
Eskridge and Riano, simply because LGBT claims increasingly were channeled into
marriage does not mean that family law pluralism stalled or died. Instead,
important innovations remained. Consider
first adult relationships. While critics tend to focus on the disappearance of
marriage alternatives such as state-law civil unions and domestic partnerships,
Eskridge and Riano carefully describe the new statuses that have survived. (p.
732) Most importantly, many private employers and local governments maintain
domestic partnership policies that allow unmarried individuals to access their partner’s
health insurance coverage. Statuses like designated beneficiaries also have
survived. But as Eskridge and Riano show, very few people have signed up. (p.
732) That may offer important information for those working for family law
pluralism. Perhaps there is little appetite for official statuses other than
marriage. Perhaps a system that aims for more just family policy should explore
ascriptive remedies over opt-in statuses. Even if the remaining mechanisms
developed by LGBT advocates have little concrete effect, they may teach us about
how to design a pluralistic family law regime. Consider
next parent-child relationships, which offer stronger support to the account of
family law pluralism that Eskridge and Riano supply. (pp. 736-38) Earlier
innovations persist, and LGBT advocates continue
to press new and more inclusive reforms. LGBT lawyers devised mechanisms, such
as second-parent adoption, that remain an important part of the family law
system. They are also pushing new ideas, like the gender-neutral and
nonbiological VAP, that seem poised to
become part of the family law system in many states. While the impact of adult
relationship mechanisms like domestic partnership may be fading in light of
same-sex couples’ access to marriage, innovations with respect to parent-child
relationships are only increasing in importance. More and more families depend
on paths to parental recognition that do not turn on marital status or
biological connection. In their work on both
adult and parent-child relationships, LGBT advocates did not simply develop
family law that served LGBT interests; they served the interests of many others
who form families that break from conventional norms. They endeavored to
include different-sex couples and non-conjugal relationships in statuses like
domestic partnership and designated beneficiaries. They crafted second-parent
adoption in ways that move beyond intimate or cohabiting relationships so as to
allow relatives and other caregivers to have their co-parent status legally
recognized with the consent of the existing legal parent. Parentage judgements, as
well as the VAP included in the UPA, can be used by same-sex and different-sex
couples, married and unmarried, who have children through assisted reproduction
and with third-party gametes. The LGBT movement’s
inclusive approach is both normative and strategic. LGBT advocates have long
articulated and embraced an ethos that challenges restrictive and exclusionary
understandings of the family and instead values “families we choose.” On this
view, advocacy should promote autonomy and equality and should respect the work
of caregiving. At the same time, the movement’s regard for non-LGBT
constituencies has been crucial to gaining support and building coalitions. In
California, as Scott Cummings and I explained, LGBT advocates responded to the governor’s refusal to support a
statewide domestic partnership law open to all same-sex and different-sex
couples by bargaining to include different-sex couples over 62—a move that
provided at least some non-LGBT people with an alternative to marriage while
also satisfying some politicians and garnering influential support from a
sympathetic constituency. While
I have focused on family law developments that push outside marriage, even
marriage, through the lens provided by Eskridge and Riano, looks different in
important ways than it did before LGBT advocates made claims to inclusion. Yes,
Rowse and DeBoer reluctantly channeled their parenting claim into a marriage
claim, and their parental ties gained legal recognition through stepparent, not second-parent, adoption. But the principles of parental recognition
within marriage have become more aligned with the pluralistic ethos of LGBT
family law work. As I have argued at length here, an
approach to marriage that includes same-sex couples values an intentional and
functional approach to parenthood over a gender-differentiated and biological
approach to parenthood. (Indeed, Eskridge and Riano carefully document how
judges and lawmakers came to reject the latter understanding as they ruled in
favor of same-sex couples’ marriage claims.) Now, for example, the marital
presumption of parentage looks less like a proxy for biological paternity and
more like an indication of a shared intent to co-parent. Not
only does the legal regulation of marriage look different in some ways, but
same-sex couples’ inclusion in marriage has consequences outside marriage. As
Eskridge and Riano show, the LGBT movement’s success on marriage equality is
not only about marriage but also
about equality—signifying an
endorsement of the legal and social equality of LGBT people. As I have shown,
this equality principle has consequences outside of marriage. A family law
regime that treats LGBT people as fully belonging necessarily embraces
nonbiological parent-child relationships. When a parentage regime provides paths
to nonbiological parental recognition, such as intent- and conduct-based
mechanisms, it not only embraces LGBT parents; it also offers a more inclusive
approach to parentage that meets the needs families across society. On
this view, family law pluralism, which owes much to the creative work of LGBT
movement actors, is alive and well. As Eskridge and Riano’s wide-ranging text
suggests, no neat or simple description can capture the complexity of the
struggles over LGBT families. Conflict will continue. Law in some areas will
regress. Law in other areas will grow. Law will look different across
jurisdictions. But the principles of pluralism and inclusion that have long
animated the LGBT movement—and that shine through in Eskridge and Riano’s Marriage
Equality—will continue to shape developments in family law as we aspire to
a legal order that respects the “families we choose.” Douglas
NeJaime is the Anne Urowsky Professor of Law at Yale Law School. He can be
reached at douglas.nejaime@yale.edu.
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